Negotiation Document - Shortened Version

* For experience, write YES or NO next to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
* For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.
"?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe.
NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity 
1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity (or would like to try), but it has no special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity (or would like to try it), at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity (or would like to try), and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like (or would like to try) it as often as possible.
Targets: Note any areas of their body the Dominant should concentrate on or avoid, either for medical reasons or personal preference.
                                   
                            Experience Y/N Willingness NO or 0-5 Notes & Nuances
Age play (fantasy child/ baby)
Anal play, toys, plugs etc
Animal roles (dog/ pony play etc.)
Beating, caning, paddles, whipping
Blindfolds 
Being serviced (sexual)
Being Bitten or Scratched
Boot/ shoe/ high heel worship 
Bondage (leather, rope, chains)
Breast sucking/ worship
Breast/ Chest whipping
Breath control
Bruises/ marks 
Candle wax
Cages/ Cells (being locked in)
CBT - Cock and Ball Torture
Chastity devices
Chores (domestic service)
Clothes pegs
Collaring 
Corsets
Cross-dressing
Dildos, Sex Toys, Vibrators
Dirty talk (crude/ obscenities)
Electrical play TENS/ Violet Wand
Enemas 
Erotic dance/ Striptease
Exercise (forced/required)
Exhibitionism 
Eye contact restrictions
Face slapping
Fantasy abandonment
Fantasy rape
Fear (being scared)
Fisting 
Following orders
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)
Foot worship (giving)
Forced masturbation
Forced nudity 
Forced servitude
Gags 
Genital sex
Genital worship/ Oral Sex
Golden showers
Hair pulling/ plucking/ shaving
Having food chosen for you
Having clothing chosen for you
High heel wearing 
Hoods
Humiliation 
Hand Cuffs / Thumb Cuffs (metal) 
Ice cubes
Immobilisation/ mummification
Infantilism (treated as baby)
Interrogations
Kidnapping (fantasy)
Kneeling 
Lectures for misbehaviour
Lingerie (wearing)
Masturbation (giving)
Massage (giving)
Medical scenes
Modelling for photos/ video
Name change (for scene)
Nettles
Nipple play/ torture
Over-the-knee spanking
Orgasm control
Outdoor scenes/ Sex
Pain 
Penis restraint
Persona training (in scene)
Phone sex  
Piercing 
Prison scenes
Prostitution (public pretence)
Punishment Scene
Pussy/cock whipping
Rituals, Religious scenes
Rubber/latex clothing
Saran wrapping (clingfilm)
Sensory deprivation
Skinny-dipping
Slutty clothing 
Spanking
Speech restrictions (when, what)
Speculums
Spiked Rollers
Spitting
Standing in corner
Stocks
Straight jackets
Strap-on-dildos
Suspension 
Swapping (with other couples)
Teasing
Tickling
Trampling
Triple penetration
Uniforms
Verbal humiliation
Voyeurism
Water torture
Wearing symbolic jewellery
Wrestling